Thursday, September 28, 2006

The Perfect Mistress

Everyone's definition of perfect Mistress is different and there is nothing wrong with that but it is important to know what would make a Mistress perfect for you? My wife is the perfect dominant for me. Not only that she is dominant sensually and sexually, she has the skills and courage to control many facets of our lives. The role of being a leader comes naturally to Her.
For almost a year, my Mistress had been very stressed because of Her (previous) job, her controlling boss and the company that was not being appreciative of Her efforts. She was not happy with it and she did not like it. Being Her submissive, I could see the struggle and frustrations that were affecting Her strong will. Its not an easy time for most submissives when their Mistress is upset or down. One feels lost but this is the time She needs him the most. Thats where my duty as a submissive came in to help Her stay up and take control of things when She was not feeling upto it. Eventually, she made some changes in Her life and some big decisions to get what She wants and deserves. She went back to school, finished Her studies and recently earned the job that she wanted, in the field that She is experienced in and at the higher position. With a bit of effort and luck, it all worked out. Not only taking control brought Her happiness, it is very fulfilling for me to see Her prosper too. This may be a very vanilla example but it shows how I see my perfect Mistress. The Mistress who knows what She likes and eagerly takes the steps to obtain and enjoy those things - in the bedroom and outside. She is my perfect Mistress and I follow and submit to Her with all my heart.