Thursday, July 28, 2005

Mercy Position Worked after practice

The other day Mistress mentioned that the positions She teach me may serve their purpose more effectively if i would have practiced them. Yesterday i fogot to make the bed for some reason. I could have been punished for it or displease my Mistress. I quickly made it for Her when i realized it and then went to Her and assumed my possion and appologized with a reason. :) It did not go to my punishment list and i hope Mistress will forget it too ... grins

Oragasm Quotes

Notable sex and orgasm quotes

"Trying to describe an orgasm is like trying to describe being in love- you can't do it yet you know exactly what it feels like." -Anonymous

"When you have a cut, you have to leave it alone and let it scab over so it can heal, right? So when a 14-year-old guy has a cut on his penis, that cut can be there until he's 27." -Adapted from Loveline

"Writing is like making love. Don't worry about the orgasm, just concentrate on the process." -Isabel Allende

"The omnipresent process of sex, as it is woven into the whole texture of a man's or woman's body, is the pattern of all the process of all our life." -Havelock Ellis

"I don't see much of Alfred since he got so interested in sex." -Mrs. Alfred Kinsey

Guide to Cunnilingus

If you serve a Mistress as Her personal slave, chances are that giving oral to your Mistress is one of the best things She may love about you. So i am adding few guides here to read about more techquines and positions to please your Mistress. I have learned that it is important to never to push Mistress and keep an eye on Her response and Her movements while you worship Her. I have noticed that my Mistress's orgasms are intense when She takes Her time to relax so i like that and find it as a way of my submission to Her to please Her. Also one should not push Mistress as many slaves get more and more excited to lick Mistress. If you are Hers, it is always Her choice if She wishes to use you in anyway She wants. The freedom to give yourself and the sensitivity you learn to please your Woman is a great relief for any slave. I will put more about Oral Woship here.

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Guide to Cunnilingus 1

Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vagina/vulva with your mouth and tongue. It is a delicate skill, requiring patience, practice, and dedication to get it right, but any woman you learn to do it right for will appreciate you all the more for it. What applies to the penis applies to the vulva - every one is different, requiring a different touch to make its owner happy. But few tools can equal the tongue for the amount of pleasure it can deliver to a happy vagina. This article assumes that you know what a vulva looks like and can identify with some precision the mons veneris, labia majora, clitoral hood, clitoris, labia minora, urethra, vagina, and perineum, to name them (approximately) from top to bottom.

This isn't an attack. Don't go after the clitoris like a fireman attacking a fire. Quite often at first, the clitoris is far too sensitive for direct stimulation. Lick around it, stimulating the hood, teasing her inner labia, tasting her. Take your time and listen to her. Some women make noise, and some do not. It will be a while before you learn exactly what your lover prefers as far as oral sex is concerned. Some women may like additional stimulation - a finger or two into the vagina, or perhaps even the anus. She may want your hands to reach up and play with her breasts, or she may want your fingers to hold her labia apart so that your tongue can get at her vulva more directly.

If the taste or smell bothers you or is a concern, ask her to wash first. Most people who enjoy cunnilingus agree that a clean vagina is a good, if acquired, taste. As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast, rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax- but there shouldn't be a rush to get there. Take your time and learn to appreciate what you can do for her.

Some people are particularly turned off at the suggestion of cunnulingus during menstruation. If it is a concern to you, then wait. A tampon may well hold the blood back, as will a diaphragm, but some men can't stand the taste anyway. If your partner is healthy, however, there is no particular danger in menstrual blood, and some women find that orgasms during their periods allievate cramps.

A Guide to Cunnilingus 2

Tongue and vulva

Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area is going to feel just great. Start your tonguing by lapping her vulva from vaginal entrance up to her clitoris, while keeping your tongue and jaw relaxed. Run your tongue between the inner and outer labia on one side, while keeping the two sides together between your lips. (There are two lips on each side of her vulva, do this to one side at a time.) Then do the other side.

Tongue sex

Make love to her vulva with your tongue - in and out, around and around, try with your tongue hard, then soft and change the tempo often. This feels nice. Spread her outer lips with your hand. With your tongue pointed and stiff, gently flick the end of your tongue here and there. Roam around, but keep coming back to her clitoris. Be careful to not apply too much pressure on the clitoris in the beginning, wait for her signal - moaning and bucking her hips. This drives some women wild, and others can't take it.

Intense vulva techniques

When she’s really hot and her vulva is throbbing try these incredible intense techniques. Watch her signals closely as these techniques may be too much, even when she’s nearing orgasm. With her clitoris still exposed, give it a quick little suck by pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This will drive her insane with ecstasy! Take her exposed clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it, at the same time flick your tongue over and around her clit. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm. Try rolling your tongue into a tube by bringing the sides of your tongue up and together. If you can't do this with your tongue, you can't learn it, it's a genetic trait. Roll your tongue into a tube around the shaft of her clitoris, sliding it up and down, making a tiny vulva of your own for her clitoris to fuck.

Oral vulva-sex positions

For a very comfortable session, have her lie on her back with legs spread and knees bent slightly. Lie on your stomach between her legs putting your right arm under her left leg and your left arm under her right leg. Your head is comfortably in place near the center of your attention. Your arms wrap around her legs leaving your hands free. Not as comfy but a bit wilder is this one. Lie on your back and prop a couple of pillows under your head. She kneels with her vulva facing you with one knee on each side of your head, above your shoulders. The sexy part of this position is that your partner can look down at you and watch you eating her out. Comfort is reduced for the one eating here, so you may want to start in this position and finish in the above position. Have her lie down with her legs dangling off the bed and resting flat on the floor, most beds are too high. She must sit just at the edge of the bed, lie back, and give you plenty of access while you kneel/sit in front of her genitals. These are by no means the only positions, so experiment and have fun.