Fantasy of Every Woman

"For a working mother, it's a fantasy. You come home at night to a spotless house, a gourmet meal simmering on the stove, your child's homework all done." says Kathy Slobogin of CNN.

I am quite sure that it is one of the most effective way to win the heart of most women, vanilla or other. Especially the working (strong willed) Woman like my Mistress.

The other day, Mistress said, when we were about to drift to sleep at night, "“spirit! You are a good boywife." I looked to Her even though it was dark. "Who Mistress?" .. "You are a good boywife." I shoke head with a smile. The manly part of me squirmed with the sound of the word 'boywife' but deep inside i know i was very happy. "Thank You Mistress" I remember smiling in the darkness too.” Such a delight to hear that from the my Mistress again. It is one of my favorites moments of course and trust me, it happens a lot. I am not talking high of myself but it is that Mistress never misses a chance to appreciate something that has pleased Her.

Man Servant, house husband or Chef at Home ! Whatever works for you but I am enjoying my time to the best of my ability when I can. Sometimes everyday chores become boring or get out of my hands but that is when the thought of making Her life a bit easier kicks in, these approval and Her smiles - all the good stuff and most of all Her many skills to help me put back on track. Mistress's place had been spotless since the first day I have met Her. That is one of the thing that is built into Her and on the other hand, she had seen my place too before I moved to Her place. It was not a good picture at all so things do get out of my hands easily but not as badly as before. Mistress's helps is always there which I appreciate. For example, like this evening: The kitchen was a mess even after my little cleaning sessions, dishes got out of hands but it is back in shape with the help of Mistress. We did dishes together. It is all clean and now the little bit of cleaning here and there is easy to take care of. I do not feel overwhelmed to not to do it at all. There is more I can do. There is always room to improve when it comes to chores around the house. Do you have any tips or suggestions ?

I must say that i am enjoying the cooking the most. I thank my Mistress to help me realize what I was missing and the skill that I thought that I never had. I hope you would find many with the help of Your Mistress/wife/gf or even on your own too especially if you wish to submit someday. Even you are not out of closet submissive yet or your wife does not approve of your submission, she would rarely mind help around the house/work in one way or another. Sometimes all it takes is to look for ideas to be more helpful to Her. To realize that you are doing it to please Her. Her approval and happiness would make you feel good. When Woman of the house can have more time for Herself and the submissive can enjoy the fullfillment of being the reason to make Her life easier, it is a win/win situation for both. It is the foundation of O/our lifestyle and a healthy relationship.