Saturday, November 06, 2004

Important Questions

1. Dominants are not perfect. They feel, hurt, cry,
rejoice, and love like anyone. She will not always be
the image of decorum and control that you so love and
worship. She will need you to show your support in
ways that are caring yet unobtrusive.

Think of a situation where your Lady is hurting.
She’s lost a loved one, or job. She’s perhaps had a
rift with another lover. Talk about how you will help
her in this time, things you will do, not just things
you will say. Explore your own feelings on the matter
in a stream of consciousness format.

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There are several levels of errors that a slave can make (just as a Dominant can.) These can range from forgetting to put two sugars in her coffee instead of one, all the way up to forgetting to make reservations for a major event.

Think of an occasion where you've made such an error, or errors. How did you approach it? How could you have handled it better? If you have not had an opportunity to learn from your mistakes; try to imagine such a situation, and how you would approach your Master. Describe in detail your reactions, your thoughts, and your words to Her.

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One thing that is difficult for many slaves is how to present themselves effectively, communicate their needs regarding a situation, and maintain the respectful subservient tone that a Dominant perfers. This is especially difficult when the Dominant has made a mistake or overlooked something, but the slave knows it should be addressed. A good example is that a party is being planned, and there is a miscalculation on the number of guests and the food ordered. Or perhaps a schedule conflict is coming up and the Dominant has forgotten.

Think of one of those two situations, where you've noticed an oversight. Then create a dialog for one of them, where you must interrupt your Domme as she is doing paperwork to talk to her to correct the problem. Focus on how you can present it respectfully, submissively, yet efficiently. Email me your response and I will look at it, then we can discuss it later.

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((I need to discuss these with my Lady before I can answer them))

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